Nine Months of Medical Attention. Then Almost Nothing. -Opinion

This is an interesting opinion piece by Dr. Hathi, a new mother and a physician. She talks about the importance of seeing the baby and mother treatment as a unit since often once the baby is born the mother has a gap in her own care.

A mother and her newborn’s health are inextricably intertwined. When a mother’s depression goes untreated, infant cognitive development suffers. When her baby falls ill, she produces targeted antibodies in her breast milk to fight infection. States with the worst maternal mortality rates tend also to have the worst infant outcomes.

Click here to read the article printed in The New York Times.

A conversation about antidepressants during pregnancy

Two Truths, a newsletter about mental health, interviews reproductive psychiatrists to talk about antidepressants during pregnancy and help us have better informed conversations with our own OB/GYNs. It is an excellent piece describing how to think about weighing benefit and risk when it comes to medication.

We’re Getting the Antidepressant Conversation Wrong

postpartum depression versus baby blues symptoms

They can feel very similar but besides the difference in how long postpartum depression lasts versus the baby blues, we also see a much longer list of symptoms for postpartum depression.

Symptoms of baby blues — which last only a few days to a week or two after your baby is born — may include:

  • Mood swings

  • Anxiety

  • Sadness

  • Irritability

  • Feeling overwhelmed

  • Crying

  • Reduced concentration

  • Appetite problems

  • Trouble sleeping

Postpartum depression symptoms may include:

  • Depressed mood or severe mood swings

  • Crying too much

  • Difficulty bonding with your baby

  • Withdrawing from family and friends

  • Loss of appetite or eating much more than usual

  • Inability to sleep or sleeping too much

  • Overwhelming tiredness or loss of energy

  • Less interest and pleasure in activities you used to enjoy

  • Intense irritability and anger

  • Fear that you're not a good mother

  • Hopelessness

  • Feelings of worthlessness, shame, guilt or inadequacy

  • Reduced ability to think clearly, concentrate or make decisions

  • Restlessness

  • Severe anxiety and panic attacks

  • Thoughts of harming yourself or your baby

  • Recurring thoughts of death or suicide

May Mothers

May is Maternal Mental Health Month and Mother’s Day is this Sunday. This can be a good time to check in with how you are feeling as a mother and/or the mothers around you. Sunday can bring a mix of feelings for new moms and expectations around how the day “should” feel or “should” be spent. Think about how you want to spend the day and be accepting of whatever that is and communicate with your partner to avoid disappointment and hopefully get what you want from the day.